WILLIAM JAMES: Habit (Happy New Year)
William
James knew all about Americans and their annual habit of making New Year’s
resolutions. He also knew that most of
those resolutions fade away before February.
In this essay he examines why old habits are so hard to break and gives
some good advice on making, and keeping, new ones. His ideas are based partly on good old American
self-help pragmatism and partly on meditations about the universal human
condition. James makes the observation
that “Men grown old in prison have asked to be readmitted after being once set
free.” This is strange but true. It has been well documented that some inmates
eventually become so institutionalized they have a hard time adjusting to life
outside prison walls. Their daily habits
behind bars finally forge bars in their minds too, making it nearly impossible
for them to escape their daily routines.
And what is true for inmates living in prison is also true for average
citizens living in the work-a-day world.
Most of us get up in the morning, take a shower, have breakfast, brush
our teeth, and then go to work. Our work
usually consists of doing the same general tasks day in, day out, year after
year. This may sound bad but James believes
regular habits help hold people together.
He puts it this way: “Habit is the enormous flywheel of society, its
most precious conservative agent.” Many workers
dream of escaping from earning a living, what we sometimes call the rat race,
as if all we’re doing is running aimlessly on a treadmill. A man may be justified in wanting to escape pointless
routines. But James (speaking both as a
psychologist and as a philosopher) cautions that “On the whole, it is best he
should not escape. It is well for the
world that in most of us, by the age of thirty, the character has set like
plaster, and will never soften again.”
For James it’s not necessarily our jobs that are wrong; it’s our habitual
way of thinking. Most of us don’t need
New Year’s resolutions. We need to be
re-educated.
James
gets straight to the point. “The great
thing, then, in all education, is to make our nervous system our ally instead
of our enemy. It is to fund and capitalize
our acquisitions, and live at ease upon the interest of the fund.” It’s a good thing we don’t start each day by
planning out how we’ll take a shower or how we’ll brush our teeth. We just do it. We’ve done these things so many times it’s
become second nature to us. For James
this is a good thing. He says, “The more
of the details of our daily life we can hand over to the effortless custody of
automatism, the more our higher powers of mind will be set free for their own
proper work.” Personal hygiene is just
routine maintenance and we should be devoting most of our mental efforts to
better things. We shouldn’t have to deliberate
over routine daily duties and James suggests “If there be such daily duties not
yet ingrained in any one of my readers, let him begin this very hour to set the
matter right.” The little daily duties we
perform (often without thinking) are important in the formation of character
because these habits soon become “set like plaster, and will never soften
again.” That’s why New Year’s
resolutions are so hard to keep. It’s
easy to say “I will (whatever my resolution is)” on December 31. It’s much harder to actually do it in January. The plaster of personal habit has already
hardened and can’t be molded into a new shape without breaking off the old
plaster first. But it’s vitally
important to make the effort because, as James says, “We are spinning our own
fates, good or evil, and never to be undone.
Every smallest stroke of virtue or of vice leaves its never so little
scar.” Drop by drop characters are
fashioned. Pragmatists believe (and it’s
inherent in the Declaration) that men are responsible for their own destinies. James believes “The hell to be endured hereafter,
of which theology tells us, is no worse than the hell we make for ourselves in
this world by habitually fashioning our characters in the wrong way.” William James thinks it’s hard, but not impossible
to break bad habits and form new, better ones.
His Happy New Year message is this: good luck with those U-turns.
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